"I am endlessly fascinated that playing football is considered a training ground for leadership, but raising children isn’t." —Dee Dee Myers
Whether you're raising kids, running your own small business or working in a corporate office, chances are that you're in a leadership position somewhere in your life.
But overwhelm and stress caused by your otherwise busy life can sometimes seep into your interactions with those people you wrangle - kids, employees, contractors and more - causing upset and angst in various areas of your life.
What if you could change some really simple things in your life and become just a little bit...better...when it came to being a leader in your life?
Hey, good news. As always, I've got ya covered. (If you're looking for a little extra help in the whole career-hacking arena, I've actually written a whole book on it - the next section is an excerpt from it. Check it out right here - it's entitled 163 Simply Powerful Career Hacks Anyone Can Use: Get Where You Want to Go In Your Career, One Easy Step at a Time.
10 Characteristics of Great Leaders
While it's commonly argued whether great leaders are born or made, there's little doubt that great leaders share several characteristics. Leadership skills are among the most important to develop if you wish to advance your career. You'll find that you already possess some of these qualities and likely need to develop the others.
Great leaders share these qualities:
1. Lead by example. Effective leaders know that they can get the best out of others by setting a good example. If you want your followers to be committed, positive, passionate, and involved, demonstrate those characteristics each day. What are you currently communicating to others by the example you set?
2. Take responsibility. Lousy leaders look to shift the blame when things start go wrong. A great leader, however, knows that setbacks occur. He also knows that if failure occurs, it was his poor planning, vision, effort, or leadership that resulted in the poor results. A great leader accepts responsibility for the outcome, both positive and negative.
3. Vision. To lead effectively, a leader must know where she's headed. After all, you have to lead to a specific destination. Do you have a vision for the future and can you communicate that vision to others? Is your vision clear and easy to understand? Is your vision focused? Do you know where you're going?
4. A plan. You might know where you're going, but do you know how to get there? Can you effectively share that plan with the members of your team? Is your plan believable and achievable?
5. Great communication skills. The ability to share your vision and your plan are paramount to success. Effective leaders are excellent communicators and work to enhance their communication skills further.
6. Motivator. It's been said that one skill needed by great leaders is the ability to inflict pain on team members and get away with it. Impressive future results require sacrifice and discomfort in the present. Are you able to inspire people enough that they'll continue to follow you instead of revolting against you?
7. Know how to develop others. It's important to develop others to become better leaders. A great leader takes the time to develop the skills of her followers. The more capable your followers, the more impressive the results you'll ultimately attain.
8. Inspire confidence in others. If people don't believe you'll be successful, you won't receive their best efforts.
9. Integrity. Team members have to believe and trust in their leader. Can your team believe what you say? Do your team members trust that you're fully committed to the project and to them? Without integrity, no one will trust you enough to commit and engage with your plans.
10. Can deal with chaos. Chaos is inevitable when working on big projects with a lot of people. Things often go wrong. Team members have personal issues. There's always someone disgruntled. Plans change. The objective can change. A great leader knows how to calmly and purposefully deal with the unexpected and guide others through the resulting distractions.
How many of these 10 characteristics do you possess? Are you willing to develop those qualities that you lack? Great leaders have several qualities in common that you can learn and apply to enhance your leadership skills. Review these qualities and look for ways to further develop your leadership abilities.