4 Powerful Reasons You Can’t Get Over the Narcissist: Why It’s So Hard to End a Toxic Relationship by Angie | Mar 16, 2017 (Visited 549 times, 1 visits today) 2 Comments JK on March 16, 2017 at 1:17 pm Angie, you are certainly one of the best!!! I look back at my husband’s behavior for over 12 yrs from day one the red flags wrapped around my face and still did not pay attention. I refuse to feel like a victim but as a result of of all the years with the cycle i do feel like a crash dummy. Thank you for educating me and waking me up to what I thought all along will get better with time. He has every quality of NPD and for me it was a jaw dropping experience. Now I see “it” is so easy to predict what they are going into next. I am working my way out as that is the only way to go with these kind. Their rage is increasing though. Reply Connie on March 16, 2017 at 2:12 pm Hi Angie. Here I am again! I haven’t been with my ex Narc in over a yr, New Yrs Eve of 2016 to be exact. We were 2gether off & on for almost 9 yrs! As far as personally being with him, I have done that! I know I could never go back there again! But my problem is I cannot seem to not respond to his text msgs!! I refrain at first, but I usually always end up responding except maybe 4-5 times. He will txt me tryn 2 get me 2 be with him, when he realizes I won’t do that, the texting stops as quickly as it started. This last episode was the past 2 wks & I just feel like it has set me back quite a bit because I was doing so good before this! I stayed out of sight as much as possible. You see, my brother lives in the same apartment complex as he does & my brother has a Chronic Disease & I have 2 stay with him a lot, which makes it hard on me bc I have to see his comings & goings & his ladyfriends. (I know it shouldn’t bother me at this point, but we all know how that goes)…Anyway, Ive blocked him on my phone but the block only last 3 mos so when the block comes off, somehow he will txt me, like he knows when the block comes off. Please do a video or email me back with any suggestions on how I can stop responding FOR GOOD! Thank u for all u do! U have helped me tremendously!!!!! Reply Submit a Comment Cancel reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Name * Email * Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment.