When Narcissists Use Flying Monkeys to Facilitate Smear Campaigns (Featuring Richard Grannon)

When Narcissists Use Flying Monkeys to Facilitate Smear Campaigns (Featuring Richard Grannon)


Richard Grannon and Angie give their thoughts on why narcissists use flying monkeys for their smear campaigns - plus how you can deal with painful smear campaigns that narcissists use against you to humiliate and further abuse you.

A quick and dirty definition of a narcissist's "flying monkey" is a person who does the narcissist's bidding for them. Sometimes, these flying monkeys are unaware of their role in the narcissist's puppet show - you know, the stage they set for their gaslighting manipulation and preferred state of drama. Other times, they're "in on it" with them.

Narcissists Who Have Changed (Featuring Richard Grannon)

Narcissists Who Have Changed (Featuring Richard Grannon)


Can narcissists change? Can a narcissist be cured? Is it possible, and has it ever happened? In this video, Richard Grannon, AKA Spartan Life Coach, and I discuss the possibilities of narcissists changing.

 

Meet Richard Grannon: Here’s Part 1 of My Interview with the Spartan Life Coach

Meet Richard Grannon: Here’s Part 1 of My Interview with the Spartan Life Coach

At your request, I have interviewed Richard Grannon! In this video, I'll share the first part of the interview - find out why he does what he does - and what he's got planned for the future. Plus: a fun lightning round!

About: Richard Grannon, NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) Master Practitioner, is passionate about helping people defend themselves, get back on their feet, and finally free themselves from narcissistic abuse. Richard attended Aston University, where he studied Psychology and trained under Richard Bandler, the co-developer of Neuro-Linguistic Programming. Much of Grannon’s specific interest in narcissistic abuse originally stemmed from personal relationships — he’d witnessed it firsthand before and could tell something that something was wrong or “off,” yet he couldn’t quite identify it. It was only through his psychological training that he began to recognize patterns of narcissistic abuse.
Richard realized that this was likely the case for victims worldwide: they were either unaware of how they were being treated, or unaware of any possible solutions to their problems. Richard graduated with a BSc in Psychology and a renewed sense of purpose. He could offer direct, practical solutions for narcissistic abuse victims and help them reclaim their self-worth.

As a NLP Master Practitioner Richard Grannon cherishes his ability to reach a wide range of people. He’s worked with people from all kinds of different backgrounds and guided them toward the way out, all while helping them take back their power and sharpen their sense of reality. He draws on elements of numerous forms of psychotherapy, such as NLP, cognitive behavioral therapy, zen meditation, psychodynamics and more, to create the most effective and personalized solutions possible for each individual client.
One of Richard’s most effective ways of promoting healing and growth is by running a course for overcoming narcissistic abuse. The sad truth behind the concept is that there is little recognition of it as a major problem for victims, and Richard decided to create his own resource that people could turn to: the Spartan Life Coach course. The course directly addresses the mental health needs of victims of emotional and psychological abuse, and provides life-changing video tutorials, hypnosis visualization tracks, and written exercises.

Although Richard started his career doing one-on-one sessions, he now focuses more on courses like this as well as seminars so that he can reach more people than ever and inspire hope around the globe.

No matter what his professional role is, Richard Grannon believes in empowering people and helping them rediscover their own worth.

Bullet Journal 101: Pages, Resources and How to Use It

Bullet Journal 101: Pages, Resources and How to Use It

Bullet Journaling 101 - Everything You Need To Know to Start and Use Your Own Bullet Journal

This is what I'm currently using:

My Bullet Journal - Leuchtturm1917 http://amzn.to/2D3g6C7
My Pens - http://amzn.to/2F4MmFF

The bullet journal is an analog system, meaning you don’t need anything more complicated than a notebook and a pen or pencil.

While it’s very customizable, and you’re certainly welcome to change things around,

In this article, I will walk you through the setup for a traditional bullet journal as first introduced by Ryder Carroll from BulletJournal.com. Use it as a starting point, get comfortable with the basic system and then change it from there.

You’ll need a notebook, a pen, and a little bit of time to get started. The type of notebook you use is up to you. The traditional style is grid or dotted paper, but I find even ruled or blank pages work just fine.

Okay, once you've got all that together, you'll want to know how to set it up. Here is a really fast overview. 

The Key

The first page of your bullet journal will include your key. This will record the shorthand you use for your bullet entries.

Here is my Bullet Journal key - and if you scroll down below it, you'll see the more traditional one. That's what I love about this system - it's so very flexible. It's part of why it works for me!

Here’s the traditional codes used. Feel free to add to it, or modify it as needed.

ᐧ (Dot) Task

X Completed Task

> Migrated Task

⃝ Appointment

⬤ Completed Appointment

⟴ Migrated Appointment

-  Notes

The Index

Your next two to four pages will be set aside for indexing. This will allow you to quickly find any collection, or get to a particular month. Title each page as an index page and move on to the next section.

The Future Log

With the original bullet journal setup this is a two page spread that records the coming 6 months. Many bullet journalers find it helpful to use a more traditional yearly calendar instead. This is a great place to record birthdays, anniversaries, or block out vacation time. Add or note the page number and record your future log in your index.

Monthly Logs

Start each month with a monthly log. Here you’ll record appointments and due dates. You can use a grid layout, or use one line for each day of the month. While this isn’t where you’ll track most of your tasks, the monthly log will come in handy for those times when you have a dentist appointment or your daughter is invited to a friend’s birthday party.

Daily Logs

The daily log is where you’ll spend most of your time in the journal. Start a new section each day and record anything important for the day. Make your list of tasks and cross them off as you get them finished. Make notes of anything important you need to remember throughout the day as well as appointments as they pop up. Everything gets logged in the daily log for speed and ease. From there you can move it as needed to the monthly or future log, or migrate it to a different day.

Migrating Tasks

At the end of your day, or first thing the next morning it’s time to review your tasks and cross out and migrate anything that isn’t checked off. For example, if you didn’t get around to doing laundry today, draw an arrow through it and add the task to today’s daily task list. If you noted an appointment that came up yesterday, move it to your monthly list and draw an arrow through it in yesterday’s list. If something no longer applies then cross it out. Your goal is to deal with each entry from your daily list by completing it, migrating it, or crossing it out.

Collections

The final part of the puzzle is collections. These are basically thematic lists you make that aren’t date related. A perfect example is a list of books you want to read. Start the list on the next blank page. Title it and start jotting down the books you want to read. Make a note of the page you’re on and add this collection to your index page. Now when you want to add a new book title to this list, or reference it to see what you want to read, you can easily find it via the index.

Using A Bullet Journal To Boost Your Productivity

A bullet journal is a great way to stay productive at work, at home, or in school. Just about anyone can benefit from bullet journaling from college students to busy working moms. If you feel like you don’t have enough hours in the day to get everything done you want to accomplish, use a bullet journal to help you plan and prioritize

The Bullet Journal Makes You Plan Ahead

As you make out your daily tasks lists, you have to think about what you should be working on. This makes you plan ahead and think things through instead of sitting at your desk doing busy work. A little bit of planning can help you make progress that much faster and it will boost your overall productivity. If you find daily to-do lists helpful, give bullet journaling a try as a way to get even more productive faster.

Some people find it helpful to make out their next day’s task list at the end of the day. Others prefer to make out their list first thing in the morning, while they are drinking coffee and getting ready for the day. Both are valid approaches. Give both a try and see what works for you.

The Bullet Journal Motivates You To Get Stuff Done

Once you have your daily tasks recorded, you’ll be motivated to work on checking them off. This will greatly increase your productivity in several different ways. The first is that you know exactly what you should be working on. You won’t waste time figuring out what your next step is, or sit there and watch cat videos instead of doing something productive.

The daily list of tasks will also make you push just a little harder to make sure everything gets done before you call it a day. Try it and see how much more you can get done in a day with a daily list in your bullet journal.

The Bullet Journal Is A Great Record To Help You Reflect

Last but not least, the bullet journal is a great record of what you’ve been doing on a daily basis. Set aside a little time to look through your notes at the end of the week or the month. Reflect on what’s working and what isn’t. Where do you need to work harder, what can you stop doing. Use the record your bullet journal gives you to improve your processes and tasks. It will make you better at your job, in school, and at home. Use it as a personal and professional improvement tool.

When Narcissists Attack You for Being Upset By Their Abuse

When Narcissists Attack You for Being Upset By Their Abuse

Ever have a narcissist attack you for feeling upset by their abuse, or for not being over it fast enough? This is how you navigate that situation and outsmart the narcissist.

Ever have a narcissist do something that righteously angered you, hurt your feelings or otherwise upset you, and then get angry at you for your feelings? In this video, I'll explain what this is and how to navigate the "get over it" trap.

You might see narcissistic rage, narcissistic injury and the poor me act, intermingled with gaslighting and other forms of manipulation, but never, ever will you catch a narcissist actually taking responsibility for their behavior and validating your feelings. Plus, I'll teach you how to literally outsmart the narcissist.

Let Bygones Be Bygones RIGHT NOW! When Narcissists Attack You for Righteous Anger & Feeling Hurt