The Narcissist Never Gives a Genuine Compliment: The Ulterior Motives of a Narcissistic Compliment

The Narcissist Never Gives a Genuine Compliment: The Ulterior Motives of a Narcissistic Compliment

Ever heard a backhanded compliment from a narcissist? Do you remember when you first met the narcissist and their compliments seemed so genuine? Would you believe me if I told you that even from the beginning, narcissists try to teach us how they want us to behave by comparing us to their exes and worse? It's true, and in this video, I'll explain it all - the truth of why the narcissist can't give a good compliment and what it means when they do - and the psychology of it all. Hold on tight! 

Toxic Family Structure: Psychology of the Lost Child & How to Heal

Toxic Family Structure: Psychology of the Lost Child & How to Heal


How a lost child experiences life and what you can do to start healing.

Are you a lost child? Are you the parent of a lost child? If so, understanding the psychology of the toxic family structure is important, but understanding the lost child's psychology is necessary if you're ever going to heal (or help your child heal).

In this video, I'll briefly discuss the lost child, how they differ from the scapegoat and golden children, and what their psychology looks like and then explain what is necessary to help the lost child heal after dealing with a narcissistic parent.

 

How Toxic Families Affect the People We Become

How Toxic Families Affect the People We Become

What are the effects of codependency in childhood and of narcissistic parents (with NPD or even just narcissistic tendencies)? Many children of narcissists spend their whole lives thinking "I wasn't good enough," and wondering if their mothers/fathers/other caregivers could and would always be better than they.

The faces of parental narcissism have a number of effects on the children - and as they become adult children of narcissists (ACON), their personalities are formed around this sort of misunderstanding of themselves as seen through the eyes of the narcissistic parent.

If you have (or know) a child who has a narcissistic parent or grandparent, you may be asking yourself how you can help them cope and what you can do to avoid the negative effects of being the child of a narcissist.

Whether you're dealing with a covert narcissist mother or an "out there" narcissist father or grandparent, you are or were dealing with gaslighting and manipulation, to say the very least. In this video, I'll explain the effects on the children in various stages and also how you can help them combat it.

Take Back Your Power Bootcamp: 30 Days to Reclaim Your Power

Take Back Your Power Bootcamp: 30 Days to Reclaim Your Power

Do you feel powerless in your life? Has being abused by a toxic narcissist left you drained and feeling like a shell of your former self?

I feel you, my friend. I know, because I have been there too.

If you’ve been struggling with your own feelings of personal power and self-worth, or simply been too scared and intimidated to go after your dreams, you know that this is an important topic.

Increasing your level of personal power will make you feel better about yourself and help you move forward in life and reach for your dreams. Most importantly, how courageous and confident we are has a direct effect on how happy and accomplished we feel. In other words, finding your courage and personal power is something well worth pursuing.

Are you ready to join me and commit to a month’s of exploration and working on your own levels of courage and personal power?

Like anything that involves human growth and self-improvement, it’s not always going to be easy and I will ask you to step out of your comfort zone from time to time.

Over the course of this thirty day bootcamp, we’ll explore what the connection between courage and confidence is, why they are important and of course (and most importantly) what we can do to become more courageous and increase our personal power on a daily basis.

The end goal is to have a bag of tools to help us continue to become more confident after this month of exploration is over. Of course, I also hope to see a big boost of courage and personal power throughout the bootcamp itself.

Learn more, check out the curriculum or sign up!

 
Narcissists and their abandonment issues

Narcissists and their abandonment issues


Narcissists are afraid you'll leave them. Yes, really. And it's all about the loss of narcissistic supply - or is it? Narcissists Have a Fear of Abandonment: NPD, Cluster B and Abandonment Issues

In this video, I'll fill you in on exactly what the psychology is behind narcissists and their major abandonment issues.

BE LIMITLESS – learn how to embrace your true power!

BE LIMITLESS – learn how to embrace your true power!

Has being with a narcissist left you living in a perpetual state of fear?

Does your life make you feel helpless to change anything?

Are you living in a perpetual state of fear?

You are not alone - and it is NOT your fault!

Did you know that more people are afraid to succeed than they are to fail?

There is one big reason for this, and it may surprise you when you learn about it.

When people fail, they can find all kinds of reasons or excuses as to why they failed. Well-meaning friends and family members might chime in as to why things didn't work out.

They will say things like, “it wasn’t meant to be” or “your heart wasn’t in it.”

But they just don't seem to get what happened - they don't understand what you've been through, do they?

It is NOT your fault.

The truth is that when you've been involved with a narcissist, you often live your life based on your fears. Your decisions are driven and dictated by this fear that may have become intrinsic in you, thanks to your abuse.

It's time to take back your life, and to STOP operating out of fear.

You deserve to be happy.

You deserve to succeed - and you CAN.

When people succeed, there are no excuses.

The steps they took worked. Perhaps it was a fluke that it worked. But what if it happens again? Then, there is no way out of it. Failure has an escape plan; success does not.

The reason people are afraid of success is it forces them out of their comfort zone. They now have to solidify their game plan and continue on the successful path. They can no longer tell people it can’t be done because they did it. It’s proven.

In this five-day course, you'll learn how to let go of limitations - those you've imposed on yourself and those others have imposed on you - and you'll learn what it takes to become the person you truly want to be.

Wouldn't it be nice to have the life you really want?

You can start right here.

What You Get When You Take This Course:

*5 days of audio books and downloadable PDF lessons

*Printable affirmations and reflection questions for each day

*A printable journal to help you take your life to the next level

Are you ready to change your perception and change your life?

Start right now by signing up for this course!