How to Outsmart a Narcissist and Make Sure You Win in the End - Narcissists are all about manipulation. Whether you're dating or married to a narcissist, this video will give you the truth about how to outsmart them and win in the...read more
Are you living each day with excitement, energy, and passion? Do you know why you're here, who you are and what your purpose in life is? Most importantly: do you live true to yourself, filling each day with meaning and happiness? If you said yes, then you're...read more
Narcissist Smear Campaign: Everything You Need to Know When You're Dealing with a Narcissist's Smear Campaign: This is everything you need to know about dealing with a smear campaign from a narcissist. What is a Smear Campaign? What is triangulation? Why do...read more
If you know me, you know I'm a huge research nerd. I live for that stuff! So, I thought I'd do a little unofficial mini-study of my own about the potential correlation between narcissism and astrological signs. Why? Because, nearly every day, I hear people talk about...read more
Running Into The Narcissist After Going No Contact: What to Say and Do, and How to Deal - What do you do when you run into your toxic ex in public, or what about your narcissistic parent? How do you deal with running into a narcissist after you've gone no contact?...read more
Did you know that QueenBeeing and the SPANily offer a number of different group support options? It's true! And they're not just for people who are in the painful part of narcissistic abuse recovery. We offer support for every level of recovery, and beyond. Take a...read more
Your safety is of the utmost importance when you're dealing with a stalker, whether it's your narcissistic ex or someone else. As I've been researching the subject, I've discovered a really cool concept called Stalker Sacks. These are physical bags of resources and...read more
Why the Narcissist won't Leave You Alone and What to Do About It. Are you tired of being bothered by a narcissist? Here's why they won't leave you alone - and what you can do about it. - How do you deal with a hoovering narcissist? What if you're no contact and the...read more
So, I got an email from a reader, and I'm sharing it with his permission. There's a bit of confusion on whether or not he's being cheated on by his wife - and if he's NOT, it looks like he may be stalking her. I want my readers to know that the only reason I am...read more
Will the narcissist be happier with someone else? Nicer to the new supply? Is the narcissist is happier with the new supply? Digging into the psychology of narcissistic personality disorder and how it looks in a toxic relationship as it ends (and as a new source of...read more
When you're dealing with a narcissistic toxic ex, you may be constantly stressed about your safety, especially if they have a tendency to stalk you. Some of my clients have even said that narcissists have broken into their homes to either gaslight them or steal from...read more
Personal Power Series Group Coaching with Lise Colucci, Certified Life Coach Join Lise for a weekly coaching group over the next 4 weeks to understand and start making changes in your life as you begin to place boundaries. Boundaries Group Coaching Do you struggle...read more
What should you put in your DIY Self-Care Kit? That's entirely up to you. But here are a few ideas to get you thinking. Self-Care Journal Pens (I love the ones linked here and use them with my own Bullet Journal) Books on Self-Care (Or See My List Here) Candles Stress...read more
Self-care is so much more important than we realize, and that couldn't be more true for survivors of narcissistic abuse. Today, I'm going to help you build your very own DIY self-care kit. But first, let's discuss why we need a self-care kit at all. Is self-care...read more
If you're dealing with a toxic ex, chances are you've got enough anxiety already. And if you can't afford a traditional home security system, you may be constantly stressing about your safety. This is not good for your physical or mental health. But there's good news...read more
Dear SPANily, Due to what I see as a serious issue, I've created a new set of resources for you. As you may or may not be aware, many toxic relationships end in stalking. In fact, many survivors of narcissistic abuse are stalked during the relationship and after as...read more
The Need to Be Alone vs. Feeling Lonely: Toxic Relationship Recovery - There IS a difference. And yes, both can happen at the same time, believe it or not. This is toxic relationship recovery. Many survivors of toxic relationships won't even talk about it with the...read more
So, You Broke No Contact with a Narcissist: What now? Getting Back on Track When You Break No Contact - With Certified Life Coach Angie Atkinson, Featuring Dana Morningstar from Thrive After...read more
So, sort of an amusing discussion happened this morning in my SPAN group. One of my admins said that having gone to the dentist proved to be more enjoyable than actually hanging out with her toxic narcissist. That sparked her idea of a blog post entitled "Things I'd...
When you're looking to get out of a toxic relationship with a narcissist, sometimes it helps to think about what you need that you're not getting. This way, as you make your plans for moving forward, you can visualize your amazing new life properly - and make room for...
You have to do what you love to do, not get stuck in that comfort zone of a regular job. Life is not a dress rehearsal. This is it. –Lucinda Basset To exceed beyond your wildest expectations you must begin with wild expectations. –Anonymous High expectations are the...
"Once all struggle is grasped, miracles are possible." ~ Mao Zedong Would you believe me if I told you that you have the power to change your world? What if I said that you could choose literally every aspect of your life, at least as far as you believe you could?...
When you've been abused by a narcissist, the recovery can be hard. When you go back into the "real" world with "normal" people, you might find that you struggle when anyone criticizes you - you may instantly feel put-upon, upset or even angry, because you are so used...
A radiant spirit shatters insecurities. I take part in activities that keep my spirit alive and make me feel good about myself. I focus on maintaining positive energy. As a result, it is easy for me to let go of my insecurities. I surround myself with those who are...
"All of the biggest technological inventions created by man – the airplane, the automobile, the computer – says little about his intelligence, but speaks volumes about his laziness." – Mark Kennedy Life is Different Than it Used to Be We live in an online world more...
While no two people are the same, we all have one thing in common - the little "roadblocks" that get in our way as we try to figure out what we really want from life. Roadblocks stop some people from ever making a change, but they motivate others to keep on going to...
As you probably know, I write about narcissism, NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) and toxic relationships in general pretty often - but only in an effort to help people to overcome them. I also coach people who have been affected by narcissistic abuse in...
One of the most difficult aspects of being tangled in a narcissist's web is learning to set firm boundaries with them. Narcissists typically have poor boundaries themselves; they like to win and maintain power, and they don't like others setting boundaries on them....
Big news! QueenBeeing.com now has an Instagram TV (IGTV) channel! This means that if you prefer Instagram or IGTV to YouTube, you can now watch Angie's videos in portrait mode on your favorite platform. Don't worry, though - Angie's YouTube channel isn't going...read more
By popular demand, we've launched our official QueenBeeing Merch Store at TeeSpring! Here are just a few examples of the designs in our store - each created by Angie Atkinson. Visit the shop and tell us what YOU think! Got an idea for a design? Tweet @angieatkinson!...read more
"Some people aren't loyal to you, they are loyal to their need of you. Once their need changes, so does their loyalty." ~Unknown Ever have a "frenemy" - you know, the "friend slash enemy" combo, all neatly wrapped up into one friend, relative, co-worker or...read more
What is Narcissistic Abuse? Why Should You Care? With #WNAAD Founder Bree Bonchay - Talking World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day with Founder Bree Bonchay - As one of the featured speakers this year, I am so excited about WNAAD! Meet Bree Bonchay, the founder, and...read more
Meet QueenBeeing's New Narcissistic Relationship Recovery Coach, Lise Colucci Schedule with Lise: http://queenbeeing.com/lise Lise Colucci is an intuitive healer and certified life coach, as well as a certified narcissistic abuse recovery coach. She is a long-time...read more
Narcissists Control You With Money: Financial Abuse in Toxic Relationships In this video, I'm sharing the truth about narcissists and how they try to control you with money. Related articles Narcissists and Public Humiliation: How & Why Narcs Shame You Publicly Take...read more
Interview with Functional Medicine Coach and Holistic Healer/Nutritionist Sharon Chud on Weight loss After Narcissistic Abuse “ No matter what I do the weight is not coming off.” Sharon Reese Chud: Functional Medicine Coach/Holistic Practitioner/ Nutritionist Sharon's...read more
Can you tell someone is a narcissist by looking at their face? Take the Dark Triad Test **More videos on psychology and personality: Psychology and Body Language If you are living with, married to, dating or otherwise involved with someone who seems to have a dark...read more
What does real love feel like? Is love even definable? Can you put a single definition of love on paper? Maybe not. Dictionaries define it as "an intense feeling of deep affection." More videos on dating healthy after being with a narcissist But we can have an intense...read more
1. What is narcissistic personality disorder (NPD)? 2. What causes NPD? 3. What are the characteristics or signs of a narcissist? ...read more