Being in a relationship with a narcissist on any level can make you feel like you need tools - a strategy, at least - to help you get through it. You'll find yourself researching ways to deal with narcissists and their gaslighting attempts, and you might even manage to become a bit of an expert on the topic.
So it only makes sense that you'd want to learn as much as you can about the psyche of the narcissist - how their minds work and what drives them.
Start here - this video features ten surprising truths about narcissists that you could use to your advantage when you're dealing with them. Use these facts carefully and with the best of intention, if you can.
If you're feeling more like you want some revenge on a narcissist, you might want to check out this post first.
Otherwise, check out 10 things you should always remember when you're dealing with a narcissist, below.