Weird Fetishes, Sex Addiction, Gaslighting and Cheating: The Sex-Addicted Narcissist by Angie | Feb 16, 2017 (Visited 945 times, 1 visits today) 2 Comments Laura Heskett on February 16, 2017 at 12:01 pm Thank you so much, Angie… you rock! My narc husband has a sex addition…He def Denies it! Our lovemaking is nothing compared what it used to be? He shoves me on the edge of the bed & there you have it..with my legs up in the air. I have MS. There is nothing comfortable about having sex anymore!! He does it over the bed..because of his back!!??? Well excuse me!!??? He does sex the way it works for him…but not how it works for me??!! He is also reaching out to gay & lesbians. And transgenders!!! To make a long story short…he has friends on both FB & Instagram that are transgenders. When I approach him about this..”You’re looking for trouble”??? Or ” You’re analyzing everything”?? We’ve been married 40 yrs. this coming April. Thanks for listening to the drama in my life!! Reply Sandra on February 16, 2017 at 2:55 pm Here’s a weird twist. I have a close friend who is marred to a female narcissist. They have been sexless for 8 years. I taught him about his situation. He has had a life long interest in kink. He very empathetic/codependent, and doesn’t want to divorce. However, he has decided that he has a right to be happy and is now participating in the local Fet community. His narc wife is of course not happy about this, but he is determined. His plan has been to give her the supply she desires as a narc but not so over the top that he is giving away his power in the dynamic. So he gets to cut out his happiness by meeting a life long desire and claim and express his sexuality, but maintain a relationship with his narc. She is financially dependent on him, and they have been together for 20 years. I am curious as the your thoughts on how a narc would adjust or react to this unusual situation. Reply Submit a Comment Cancel reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Name * Email * Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment.