Is QueenBeeing for You?
The first thing you need to know is that QueenBeeing is not for everyone – we know this, and we are totally okay with it. That’s because we know exactly who we’re here to serve, and we’re not trying to serve anyone who isn’t one of us.
But we think it’s necessary – because there are plenty of other resources for the masses. There are tons of websites, books and life coaches who are focused on serving people who are like everyone else. But we are here to serve the people who don’t always feel like everyone else – and who aren’t focused on being like everyone else. We are here to serve a very specific kind of person.
So, are you one of us?
The QueenBeeing Charge
Understand this, my friend. You are more powerful than you know.
You are now charged with changing your life, rewriting your story. You can write your own history from here on out – and you can be the star of your own life. And, along with my team, I’ll show you the way.
You might be one of us if:
- You have a deep sense of empathy for people in your life and humanity as a whole. You might even be able to “feel” other people’s feelings sometimes.
- You know there’s more to this life and you know or think that you want to find out what it is.
- You’re working toward (or willing to work toward) manifesting the life that you’ve always wanted–the best possible version of your own–and you’re willing and/or ready to make it happen.
- You’re feeling a pull to become connected with something deeper inside yourself. You want to tap into your creativity, intuition and generally, you’re pulled toward becoming the best possible version of yourself. You’re feeling more powerful (or you want to feel more powerful).
- You know you would benefit by becoming part of a bigger group or collective of people who understand you in a unique and powerful way – you sense that there is a circle of strong support available to you and you’re ready to access it.
- You’re still here, still reading and still interested. (Everything for a reason, people!)
- You are ready to step outside of the box, outside of your comfort zone and find out who you really, truly are–and then to totally, fully and completely embrace that person so fully that no one–male, female or otherwise–can take your confidence and security away from you.
Still with me? Good.
The Art of QueenBeeing, Defined
“QueenBeeing” is a term coined by Angela Atkinson and its meaning is vast as several components are included.
Essentially, “QueenBeeing” can best be described as a chosen lifestyle that embraces understanding and employing the art of being your true, authentic self and of manifesting the life of which you’ve always dreamed – but it’s also so much more.
For me, it was also about overcoming toxic relationships and situations in my life and learning to find that unconditional self-acceptance and self-love during the recovery from those toxic relationships and situations. I learned to become my true self and to live authentically, and I came to understand the art of intentional vibration management to manifest the life I want and deserve.
And here’s the best part: now, I get to teach you how to do the same thing. That means I am doing what I love for a career: helping my fellow survivors to take back their lives and their very selves and to become the people they truly are.
I am so grateful and at the same time, I feel a huge responsibility to my community. It doesn’t feel like a burden for me, but genuine love, respect, and concern for them, as well as a desire to see them succeed and to be happy.
The art of QueenBeeing is the art of living your best life and being your best possible self. It is learning to manifest your life intentionally, rather than letting life happen to you. It is recognizing your worth and not apologizing for it. It is standing up for yourself when you need to – and walking away from toxic people who would prefer to keep you down, rather than lifting you up.
And it is lifting up the people in your life who would do the same for you. And this is what I get to do for a living.
it is giving the good people in your life the same kind of love and respect you want from them. When you open up your life by clearing out the negative, toxic influences, you create space and positive vibrations to attract healthier, more positive people into it.
This can lead you to stop the cycle of abuse in your own life and of the lives of people you affect – your children, nieces and nephews, friends, neighbors, coworkers. And that, my friend, is amazing karma for you.
Are you ready to take control and learn the art of QueenBeeing?
Together, we are going to help you to discover, understand and overcome any toxic relationships or situations in your life, and we’re going to help you survive, thrive and evolve your way to your best self and your best life.
We will help you figure out your purpose, find your passion and bring your inner gifts and path to happiness to the forefront of your world (which, by the way, you can totally choose to RULE!).
Stand together with us, and help us to create awareness in the lives of others, while we evolve and change our own. One survivor at a time, let’s help to create a better world for every person, starting with ourselves. And then, let’s keep paying it forward.
Now it’s time to embrace yourself and your fellow SPANily members. It is OUR time. We are all connected, and we are each powerful. QueenBeeing aims to not only support survivors in their narcissistic abuse recovery but also to help them as they move forward in their personal, professional and spiritual development.
You will only be happy when you are truly, authentically and unapologetically YOU – and when you learn to love that version of yourself, the sky will be the limit. Powerful will be an understatement. Are you ready to change your life and to reveal your whole self, even the parts that are hidden?
This moment has been a long time coming, right? Do you feel a little twinge, or a pull–or a burning desire, deep inside of you? You might be ready to join The Queen’s List and become part of the SPANily.
What the Art of QueenBeeing Looks Like in Full Force
You are comfortable in your skin and in your life. It is the life you have chosen and manifested through your own intentions. You are unafraid to be yourself, authentically and truly. You say what you mean and you mean what you say. You’re intuitively connected to people, things and situations around you and in some way, to the Universe. You actively defy convention, expectation and oppression by creating new and better ways to love your life, as well as to pay it forward to those around you. You have learned to love yourself unconditionally and unapologetically.
We don’t believe in martyrdom or being a victim. We are learning to love ourselves and to put ourselves on our own priority lists and on becoming self-actualized.
We (are learning to) accept ourselves unconditionally for who we truly are, and to love and embrace that person. We lean into our true selves a little more each day. We (are learning) to unapologetically present ourselves to others. We (are learning to) know our worth, and this allows us to present ourselves without fear of their opinions.
We (are learning to) take care of ourselves and we don’t apologize for it. We don’t compete with others unless we do so with a positive spirit and in an appropriate situation. We (are learning to) understand that we should never compete for attention in a loving relationship.
We (are learning to) understand that we are worth being treated with love, respect, and compassion by anyone who is allowed to be a part of our inner circle.
We (are learning to) practice and live The Art of QueenBeeing.
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