Are you an empath?

Are you an empath?

Basic empathy is simply the ability to imagine yourself in another person’s place and understand their feelings, desires, ideas, and actions. But being an empath is a little deeper. Here are the top 10 empath traits (watch the video for expansion on each point!):

1. Empaths are highly sensitive.

2. Empaths absorb the emotions of the people around them.

3. Empaths can seem introverted at times.

4. Empaths seem to “know” things.

5. Empaths need time to be alone each day.

6. Empaths don’t always want to be joined at the hip in a relationship.

7. Energy vampires LOVE empaths.

8. Nature can make an empath feel better.

9. Empaths are sometimes seen as oversensitive to noise, smells or too much talking.

10. Empaths sometimes give too much and end up depleting themselves.

Still not sure you’re an empath? Take this quiz!

Why Being Assertive is Important and How to Develop It: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

Why Being Assertive is Important and How to Develop It: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

Learning to be assertive is one of the most important life skills you can develop. That’s true for anyone – but especially for narcissistic abuse survivors. Studies have shown that being assertive can lead to a whole host of benefits, from increased self-confidence to better relationships and improved mental and physical health.

Before you start, it’s important to understand what being assertive means. Psychologists define assertiveness as being able to express yourself effectively and stand up for your point of view while respecting the rights and beliefs of others. The basis of assertiveness is mutual respect and honesty. Assertive communicators are straightforward and know how to set and maintain healthy boundaries. Their relationships value and promote trust.

If you’re serious about living an authentic life and succeeding in reaching your goals, learning to be assertive is crucial.

Think about how you feel about your life right now.

  • Are you satisfied with your personal and professional situation?
  • Are you conflict avoidant?
  • Do you worry about what other people think of you?

If you’re not happy with where you are now, the good news is that assertiveness is a habit that can be learned just like any other. With practice and commitment, you can change your mindset and live a life more aligned with your true values and aspirations.

Try these tips for introducing a more assertive approach into your life:

  1. Decide what your priorities are and stick to them.
  2. Work out your individual boundaries.
  3. Develop a positive open posture and look people in the eye when you speak to them.
  4. Use positive “I’ statements about how you’re feeling instead of blaming or finding fault with the other person. Be especially wary of feeling tempted to say, “you always’ or “you never.’
  5. Get comfortable with saying “no’ to things you don’t want to or can’t do. Keep it simple and non-emotive and don’t feel you need to add an excuse or explanation.
  6. Only use “sorry’ when it’s appropriate for the situation. You don’t need to apologize for saying no.
  7. Offer alternative suggestions to proposals you don’t like.
  8. Look for compromises.
  9. Be honest and direct about your feelings, thoughts, and intentions.
  10. Consider writing a script for a situation that feels awkward. Rehearse being confident.
  11. Try to keep your focus on the impact of the situation and finding a way to work together to find a mutually satisfying solution.

Above all, being assertive means staying in your power, accepting that you have control over how you approach the situation and your feelings about it. Assertiveness won’t get you everything you want all the time, but you will feel in control and deal much better with situations that would have previously been stressful.

FYI: I’m currently offering a free ebook and mini-course on how survivors of narcissistic abuse can be more assertive in setting boundaries if you’re interested. You can sign up for free right here. 

 

Beware: These People Are Trying to Scam Narcissistic Abuse Survivors

Beware: These People Are Trying to Scam Narcissistic Abuse Survivors

People are Running Predatory Scams on Narcissistic Abuse Survivors – Here’s how to avoid being scammed. (Plus Q&A Support Replay) with Dana Morningstar & Angie Atkinson – You might be really vulnerable during your recovery from a toxic relationship. In this video, Dana and I discuss a private investigator scam that we recently heard from a member of our community. In this case, the so-called PI would only accept iTunes gift cards as payment, which Dana revealed are completely untraceable.

Also discussed are questions asked by survivors as well as how to stay safe in online support groups, and more.

Motivation Mojo – New Course at Life Makeover Academy

Motivation Mojo – New Course at Life Makeover Academy

Introducing…Motivation Mojo – Awakening The Limitless Drive Within

‘Motivation Mojo’ is your ultimate guide to take the full advantage of the ‘fire’ that drives you to be insanely successful – your inner motivation.

What you are about to discover are the secrets to how the world’s high performers & successful people ‘re-fuel’ their motivation to help them to achieve lifetime goals that nobody thought possible. Now you can have access to the same secrets to fire up your motivation by following the strategies covered in this life-changing blueprint.

Feed Your Fire!

If you are looking for effective ways to feed your fire so that you can accomplish greater goals in life, be it personal or professional goals… then this guide is MEANT for you.

In Motivation Mojo, you will discover the secrets to how the world’s high performers & successful people ‘refuel’ their motivation to achieve their life goals.

You will learn the effective ways to feed your fire so that you can accomplish greater goals in life!

Sounds impossible?

You Need To Check This Out TODAY!

Learn More or Sign Up Now!

We Want Your Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Story!

We Want Your Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Story!

One of the biggest things I hear from narcissistic abuse survivors who find this site or my narcissistic abuse recovery videos is that they are so relieved to learn that not only are they not crazy, but that they aren’t alone in the painful and shocking realization that they are being (or have been) abused by a toxic person.

It’s a HUGE part of recovery. And it matters.

It’s so important for people who are going through and recovering from narcissistic abuse to truly understand that they are not alone.

When you share your story and your personal experiences with narcissistic abuse recovery, not only can it help you grow and evolve in your own recovery, but it offers you a unique chance to pay it forward and help to encourage and support other survivors who are having or have had similar experiences.

In addition to a personal narrative, you may choose to tell your story in one of several different forms, such as:

  • Original Artwork
  • Your Own Photos
  • Prose/poetry
  • Song lyrics
  • Videos (If you choose to submit your story by video, please keep the video at under 15 minutes. Do not upload to YouTube. Instead, upload privately to Google Drive or Dropbox and share to angyatkinson@gmail.com. Email angyatkinson@gmail.com and melina.a.moutria@gmail.com with a link to your Google Drive or Dropbox upload as well as any additional information, photos or thoughts you’d like to share. If accepted, your story will be told in a video by Angie Atkinson or one of the other QueenBeeing coaches.)

If you want to keep your story confidential, QueenBeeing.com offers a number of safe, moderated spaces and support groups for sharing your stories, thoughts and ideas that are also private to our community. Learn more about those here.

Remember this: your voice is authentic, and it matters. You can truly make a difference for yourself and other survivors of narcissistic abuse by sharing your experiences and perspective. What has helped in your recovery? What has worked? What hasn’t? What has been the hardest part of recovery? What has given you hope and helped you move in the right direction? There are all sorts of things you know that other survivors of narcissistic abuse want to know. You are not alone.

Please help us let them know that they aren’t either.

Want to submit your story?

  1. First: read our full story submission guidelines.
  2. Then: submit your story here. 

New Support Group for Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

New Support Group for Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

Introducing a brand new support group for people who are actively co-parenting with a narcissist. We KNOW how hard it is, and due to several requests, we have launched the SPANily Support for Co-Parenting with a Narcissist Support Group.

If you’re co-parenting with a narcissist, this is the group for you. SPANily Support for Co-Parenting with a Narcissist is a parenting-focused narcissistic abuse recovery support group by Angie Atkinson and QueenBeeing.com.

Things to Know:

  • This group is part of the QueenBeeing SPANily family of support groups. See more groups here.
  • Your group leaders are QueenBeeing coaches Angie Atkinson, Lise Colucci, Colleen Brosnan and Misty Dawn. Each of us is a certified life coach and have experience co-parenting/parallel parenting with narcissists.
  • We are here to support you and we expect you to support our fellow survivors/parents in this group in return.

Join the group here. 

Did you know?

QueenBeeing.com offers all kinds of resources for support for people who are affected by narcissistic abuse and working on their recovery.  That includes group support. We have both free and inexpensive options. Our other support groups currently include:

Want more personal support? Check out our one-on-one coaching options, right here. 

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