Dear Kim Davis: An Open Letter to a Kentucky Hypocrite

Written by Angela Atkinson

Dear Ms. Davis,

gay marriage rightsYou don’t know me, but I know you. So does everyone on the planet right about now, thanks to your clear lack of normal social skills and general decency.

Not to mention the whole “refusing to do your job because it’s against your so-called religion” thing. (Luckily, the state saw your ignorance and got someone else to do your job. I bet that stings a little, huh?)

Now, let me start by saying this: while I disagree with your politics and your blatant lack of respect for other people, I am not usually one to judge anyone.

I mean, who among us is perfect? Certainly not me! Heck, I got divorced at the ripe old age of 23 (after a bad decision led to me being married at 21).

Then, I was a single mom for three years, until I met my now – husband, who I’ve been with for more than 15 years now.

During my first year as a single mom, while I was going through my divorce, I was forced to put my then 1-year-old in daycare.

I chose a church daycare nearby that had a good reputation and in fact was well-equipped for the job.

It wasn’t cheap but it was worth my peace of mind, I thought.

But what I didn’t realize at first was that they’d eventually tell me that not only was I wrong for leaving my emotionally abusive and seriously messed up ex, but it was my duty as a woman to fix that marriage.

Then they systematically tried to force me into it by calling me almost daily to pick up my son for various made up reasons.

Yep. And that is just one of many experiences I’ve had with judgmental so-called religious people.

With all of that being said, I guess this means that you’re not alone – you have plenty of company when it comes to people who use their religion to justify their own small- minded ways (read: unreasonable hate and prejudice against people who are different than they).

Even so, it occurs to me that since you’ve personally been divorced and have a clear record of being a blatant adultress, you don’t have a leg to stand on when it comes to using your “Christian” beliefs. Your own people would say that you’ve broken at least two of their big 10 commandments, not to mention that being gay isn’t on that list.

I guess all this leads me to ask you a few questions.

1. Given the state of our country today and the fact that your beliefs are rooted in hate and ignorance, what do you think you’re going to accomplish by refusing to do your government job, which by the way has nothing to do with your religion?

2. What gives you the right to push your clearly confused beliefs on anyone else?

3. Why hasn’t the state just fired your ass by now? Refusing to do your job is grounds for firing every time, but hey, the religion card got pulled, so the same kinds of PC laws are protecting your right to refuse? I don’t get it.

4. Do you hate yourself as well? If you consider all of the marks against you, according to your Bible, you’re probably going to be joining all the other sinners in hell anyway.

5. I hear you’ve chosen to sit in jail instead of doing your job. How are you enjoying the accommodations? Is it worth it to deny a whole group of (already persecuted people) their rights?

6. Does it bother you that GoFundMe isn’t even going to help you out? 

7. Who the hell do you think you are, anyway???

A disgusted stranger


  • Angela Atkinson

    Angela Atkinson is a certified trauma counselor and the author of more than 20 books on narcissism, narcissistic abuse recovery, and related topics. A recognized expert on narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder who has studied and written extensively on narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic abuse in toxic relationships since 2006, she has a popular narcissistic abuse recovery YouTube channel. Atkinson was inspired to begin her work as a result of having survived toxic relationships of her own. Atkinson offers trauma-informed narcissistic abuse recovery coaching and has certifications in trauma counseling, life coaching, level 2 therapeutic model, CBT coaching, integrative wellness coaching, and NLP. She is a certified trauma support coach and certified family trauma professional. She also has a professional PTSD counseling certification. Her mission is to help those who have experienced the emotional and mental devastation that comes with narcissistic abuse in these incredibly toxic relationships to (re)discover their true selves, stop the gaslighting and manipulation, and move forward into their genuine desires – into a life that is exactly what they choose for themselves. Along with her solution-focused life coaching experience, Atkinson’s previous career in journalism and research helps her to offer both accurate and understandable information for survivors of abuse in a simple-to-understand way that helps to increase awareness in the narcissistic abuse recovery community. Atkinson founded Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support, the SPANily Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support Groups and the Life Makeover Academy. She offers individual and group coaching for victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse here at and at NarcissisticAbuseRecovery.Online.

Get Guided Help with Your Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

Subscribe and get a special email series from Angie – packed with free gifts to help you heal and evolve!

Where are you in your recovery?



We won’t send you spam. Unsubscribe at any time.

Powered By ConvertKit

Award for Angie’s YouTube Channel

Disclosure – Click to Read


You're not alone.

We have been there and we can help you heal.

Related Articles

Refund Information

We are all going through a difficult time as our community is grieving the loss of our coach and guiding light, Angie Atkinson. All refunds will start processing in January. Please get in touch with us about any refunds that we need to give out. You can contact us at...

What is NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming)?

What is NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming)?

If you're struggling to recover from narcissistic abuse, you might be interested in learning about Neuro-Linguistic Programming or NLP.  It's a surprisingly simple yet highly effective treatment for symptoms of complex post-traumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD)...

Get Guided Help with Your Recovery & Stay Up to Date With The Latest News & Updates

Join the SPANily! Start with our free newsletter.

Subscribe and get a special email series from Angie - packed with free gifts to help you heal and evolve!

    Where are you in your recovery?
    We respect your privacy. Unsubscribe at any time.
    Powered By ConvertKit

    Pin It on Pinterest

    Share This

    Share this post with someone who needs it!