Dear Men, Here’s what your wives need you to know about sex (but may never tell you)

Written by Angela Atkinson

Dear Men,

As it turns out, you’re getting your sex advice from the wrong place. But, lucky for you, I am all about great married sex and I’m going to help you out.

Sit down, this might shock/upset/surprise you and we don’t need any craziness happening. Ready? 

Here it is.

See, recent studies tell us that not only do y’all watch more porn than us women (not that there’s anything wrong with that), but also that it tends to affect your behavior in the bedroom – and not in a good way. 

Some interesting facts:

Porn sites have more visitors each month than Netflix, Amazon and Twitter combined. 

Researchers say that 25 percent of men and 8 percent of women (will admit they) watch porn

Pretty clearly explains why you guys think real women have sex with one leg wrapped around their ears and gracefully propped up against a wall. 

Sure, porn will show you the physical stuff about sex – up to a point – but it doesn’t give you a proper education about the birds and the bees. 

Men – do you WANT your women to have orgasms? Then listen up. There’s one person who can help you get her there, and it ain’t me. 

Can you guess who to ask? Yeah, you guessed it – experts say you need to ask your woman how SHE likes it. Shocking, I know. 

Why? According to our source:

In porn, things can go from zero to 60 that is, from a single kiss to serious sex in what seems like seconds. In reality, jumping in that quickly can not only be painful for women, it can also lower their chance of orgasm.

“Arousal before intercourse is key to the female orgasm. A 2012 study on sexual touching, arousal and orgasmfound that the odds of being unable to climax are more than two times greater among women who sometimes, rarely or never engaged in sexual touching before intercourse, compared to women who always did.”

And there it is – the single best piece of sex advice I can offer you. Find out what your girl likes and do THAT. BOOM. 

Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to give your wife the big O as soon as possible. You’re welcome. 🙂

Sincerely,

Wives Everywhere

Read about the study click here

(Visited 79 times, 1 visits today)

Get Guided Help with Your Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

Subscribe and get a special email series from Angie – packed with free gifts to help you heal and evolve!

Where are you in your recovery?

 

Subscribe

We won’t send you spam. Unsubscribe at any time.

Powered By ConvertKit

Award for Angie’s YouTube Channel

Disclosure – Click to Read

advertisement

You're not alone.

We have been there and we can help you heal.

Related Articles

Why Do Narcissists Make You Feel Like You’re Not Enough?

Why Do Narcissists Make You Feel Like You’re Not Enough?

If you've ever been in a toxic relationship with a narcissist, you might already know how adept they can be at making you feel completely worthless. If that rings true for you, you're definitely not alone. In fact, one of the most underrated ways a narcissist can...

What is internalized gaslighting?

What is internalized gaslighting?

(See video on YouTube) A longtime member of my narcissistic abuse recovery community used to tell me that he was really good at gaslighting himself. It amused me at first, but when I really started to think about it, I realized that he wasn't off-base in his...

Why does a narcissist move on so quickly after the discard?

Why does a narcissist move on so quickly after the discard?

Have you been discarded by a narcissist, only to learn that they've already moved on to another partner days, weeks, or even hours after your relationship ended? Or, have you learned the hard way that your ex (or soon-to-be-ex) is already involved with someone else...

Get Guided Help with Your Recovery & Stay Up to Date With The Latest News & Updates

Join the SPANily! Start with our free newsletter.

Subscribe and get a special email series from Angie - packed with free gifts to help you heal and evolve!

    Where are you in your recovery?
    We respect your privacy. Unsubscribe at any time.
    Powered By ConvertKit

    Pin It on Pinterest

    Share This

    Share this post with your friends!