As it turns out, you’re getting your sex advice from the wrong place. But, lucky for you, I am all about great married sex and I’m going to help you out.
Sit down, this might shock/upset/surprise you and we don’t need any craziness happening. Ready?
Here it is.
See, recent studies tell us that not only do y’all watch more porn than us women (not that there’s anything wrong with that), but also that it tends to affect your behavior in the bedroom – and not in a good way.
Some interesting facts:
Porn sites have more visitors each month than Netflix, Amazon and Twitter combined.
Researchers say that 25 percent of men and 8 percent of women (will admit they) watch porn
Pretty clearly explains why you guys think real women have sex with one leg wrapped around their ears and gracefully propped up against a wall.
Sure, porn will show you the physical stuff about sex – up to a point – but it doesn’t give you a proper education about the birds and the bees.
Men – do you WANT your women to have orgasms? Then listen up. There’s one person who can help you get her there, and it ain’t me.
Can you guess who to ask? Yeah, you guessed it – experts say you need to ask your woman how SHE likes it. Shocking, I know.
Why? According to our source:
In porn, things can go from zero to 60 that is, from a single kiss to serious sex in what seems like seconds. In reality, jumping in that quickly can not only be painful for women, it can also lower their chance of orgasm.
“Arousal before intercourse is key to the female orgasm. A 2012 study on sexual touching, arousal and orgasmfound that the odds of being unable to climax are more than two times greater among women who sometimes, rarely or never engaged in sexual touching before intercourse, compared to women who always did.”
And there it is – the single best piece of sex advice I can offer you. Find out what your girl likes and do THAT. BOOM.
Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to give your wife the big O as soon as possible. You’re welcome. 🙂
Read about the study click here
Angela Atkinson is a Certified Life Coach and the author of more than 20 books on narcissism, narcissistic abuse recovery and related topics. A recognized expert on narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder who has studied and written extensively on narcissistic relationships since 2006, Atkinson was inspired to begin her work as a result of having survived toxic relationships of her own.
Atkinson offers trauma-informed coaching and has certifications in life coaching, level 2 therapeutic model, CBT coaching, integrative wellness coaching, and NLP. She is a certified trauma support coach and certified family trauma professional. She also has a professional PTSD counseling certification. Her mission is to help those who have experienced the emotional and mental devastation that comes with narcissistic abuse in these incredibly toxic relationships to (re)discover their true selves, stop the gaslighting and manipulation and move forward into their genuine desires – into a life that is exactly what they choose for themselves.
Along with her solution-focused life coaching experience, Atkinson’s previous career in journalism and research helps her to offer both accurate and understandable information for survivors of abuse in a simple-to-understand way that helps to increase awareness in the narcissistic abuse recovery community. Atkinson founded QueenBeeing.com Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support, the SPANily Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support Groups and the Life Makeover Academy. In her life coaching practice, Atkinson’s clients enjoy her personalized approach that allows and encourages them to become the best possible versions of themselves and to succeed in doing what they love most. She offers individual and group coaching for victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse at NarcissisticAbuseRecovery.Online and NarcissismSupportCoach.com.