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So often, survivors of narcissistic abuse find themselves falling for the hoovering and love-bombing of narcissists who have nothing but their own interests (and “supply”) in mind.

And, when they do, they find themselves feeling like they’ve been fooled, taken – plain old lied-to. They realize they’re once again the victim of the narcissist’s standard one-two punch – the gaslighting/hoovering cycle.

It’s what causes us to keep going back to the toxic relationships in our lives – and it’s what causes us to waste our lives on people who just aren’t worth it. 

I’ll also identify the biggest fear we all have – and how toxic narcissists will use it against you to get what they want – including how they use it to suck you right back in – even when you know better. 

I’ve explained it all in detail in the video below. 

So what do you think? Did you recognize yourself in the video? Have you been sucked back in? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments. Let’s discuss it. 

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One Response to Explained: Why You Keep Going Back to a Toxic Narcissist

  1. Yes, I went back to my ex N gf on two different occasions. I wrote very lengthy letters to her and waited for a response. She did respond both times but sometimes a week after getting them. You are right about the thinking, you can go back and fix them. I thought I wasn’t trying hard enough. I should have never written the letters.

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