Why Facebook should make the new ‘ex’ tool a standard option

Written by Angela Atkinson

It’s 2 a.m. and you’ve just fallen in bed after a night of drinks and dancing with the girls.

Your phone quietly informs you of a new Facebook notification just before your eyes close and you drift away to sleep and you groggily reach across your nightstand, flipping the phone toward you.

You unlock the phone and squint to read that your ex just got engaged.

Whether you’re single or married now, you have no choice but to do a little stalking. I mean after all, don’t you want to know who he ended up with?

You’ll compare yourself to her, wonder if she’s better in bed than you, and if you’re still raw about your breakup, you’ll probably wind up hating her.

That’s no good for you or anyone else. Hate is one of the most self-destructive emotions we have.What is wrong with the new FB ex tool

Logically, we know that we shouldn’t look and stalk – but in those weak moments, like at 2 a.m. after a night of drinks and dancing, we can’t help ourselves.

But now Facebook has decided to step on in and give you a little help getting over your ex.

That’s right – now there is a way to prevent your urge to stalk, and we can thank the great Mark Zuckerberg.

As you’ve probably already heard, Facebook recently announced that you can control how much (and how little) you see of your ex. That’s cool and all, but I feel like there’s something else we need.

Dear Mark Zuckerberg, Help me out!

So this is why I’m not totally satisfied yet. Right now, these tools are exclusive to people who change their relationship status.

So, if you change relationship status, you’ll be presented with the new options.

I say that’s pretty cool. Of course I also have a suggestion for the Facebook team. You ready?

Give me this much control over all of my friends. There are a few things I don’t want to see repeatedly.

For example, some author friends and I share several free ebook groups that we use to promote our free days on Kindle Select. The problem is that when they post their freebies, I end up seeing like 50 notifications on the same item. This clutters up my newsfeed and pisses me off a little.

When I try to unfollow the person, I still see the notifications.

On top of this, I do not want to annoy my own friends with similar stuff.

So I think I’ve made my point. Facebook. Help me out.

What do you think? Should Facebook make its “ex” tools available to everyone? Share your thoughts in the comments below. 

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