Feng Shui for Passion: Use the Fire Element to Improve Your Life

Written by Angela Atkinson

A gold-colored dragon represents the fire element in feng shui.“Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you.” ~Oprah Winfrey

How can you use feng shui for passion? Passion is so important in our lives–many people don’t even realize how important it is. Without it, there would literally be no human race, at least not the one we know today. We would have no desire to reproduce, right? But passion also counts when it comes to creating the lives we want in general. Passion is what causes us to move forward on that new project that becomes THE project. It’s the driving force behind our hobbies, our love lives, our families, our friends and even behind our whole selves.

As we continue our series on feng shui, we’re talking about the fire element, what it represents, how to represent it in your home and why you should. If you’re looking for ways to increase the passion, love and action in your own life, you can start with feng shui.

Using Feng Shui for Passion and Action

Feng Shui is an art as much as it is a practice. It’s the concept of bringing nature and natural patterns and surroundings into our homes and everyday lives.  The idea is that by doing this, you can bring harmony and peaceful alignment to your personal space and ultimately, the world.

Feng Shui brings together the five elements, including fire, earth, air water and metal. The underlying concept is that the qi, or life force, must be able to move freely in a room.

Practitioners often start by bringing in certain types of furniture and various types of décor and lighting that represent these elements.

Correspondences in Feng Shui for Passion, Love and Action

In general, the fire element includes the following correspondences.

  • Emotion: Happiness
  • Planet: Mars
  • Chinese Astrology Compatibility: Serpent, Horse, Sheep
  • Direction: South
  • Season: Summer—think hot
  • Shape: Triangle
  • Room: Living Room
  • Symbol: Red Phoenix

Color and balance are also very important in feng shui.

  • Feng Shui Fire Element Colors: Color is probably the simplest way to bring the fire element into your home. Colors such as red, bright yellow, orange, purple and pink represent the element ideally.
  • When the Fire Element is Balanced: The fire element, on the positive side, can fuel enthusiasm, help leaders be more effective, encourage expressiveness and inspiration and help people be bolder. It can ignite passion and excitement in your relationships. It spurs action.
  •  Too Much or Too Little Fire Element: When the fire element is overstated in a home, people often display anger or aggression, or they may become irritable or impulsive. But if there’s not enough fire, residents might be emotionally cold and have a problem with low self-esteem—or they could just experience a lack of vision and be generally apathetic.

Practical Feng Shui for Passion: Bringing the Fire Element Into Your Home

You can represent the fire element in your home in a number of ways. In addition to incorporating the colors listed above into your plan, some specific ideas include the following.

  • Candles
  • Fireplaces (wall hung gas fires are a great substitution if you can’t afford a traditional fireplace installation)
  • Art with fire images and/or colors
  • Gas fire baskets
  • Lighting fixtures incorporating the fire colors
  • Vases, throw pillows and other “pops” of color in the fire colors
  • Electronic equipment
  • Animal prints
  • Sunlight (open the windows!)

Personally, I’ve got red throw pillows, a ton of candles and red incorporated into my artwork in the living room. I am still working on that fireplace. 🙂

What are your favorite ways to incorporate the fire element into your home or office décor? Share your thoughts in the comments section, below.

Author

  • Angela Atkinson is a certified trauma counselor and the author of more than 20 books on narcissism, narcissistic abuse recovery, and related topics. A recognized expert on narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder who has studied and written extensively on narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic abuse in toxic relationships since 2006, she has a popular narcissistic abuse recovery YouTube channel. Atkinson was inspired to begin her work as a result of having survived toxic relationships of her own. Atkinson offers trauma-informed narcissistic abuse recovery coaching and has certifications in trauma counseling, life coaching, level 2 therapeutic model, CBT coaching, integrative wellness coaching, and NLP. She is a certified trauma support coach and certified family trauma professional. She also has a professional PTSD counseling certification. Her mission is to help those who have experienced the emotional and mental devastation that comes with narcissistic abuse in these incredibly toxic relationships to (re)discover their true selves, stop the gaslighting and manipulation, and move forward into their genuine desires – into a life that is exactly what they choose for themselves. Along with her solution-focused life coaching experience, Atkinson’s previous career in journalism and research helps her to offer both accurate and understandable information for survivors of abuse in a simple-to-understand way that helps to increase awareness in the narcissistic abuse recovery community. Atkinson founded QueenBeeing.com Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support, the SPANily Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support Groups and the Life Makeover Academy. She offers individual and group coaching for victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse here at QueenBeeing.com and at NarcissisticAbuseRecovery.Online.

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