As a woman, what do you think are the qualities that cause you and/or other women to be considered “hot?” An informal survey of women between the ages of 18 and 65 produced varied answers. Here are some of the most interesting.
What Women Say Makes a Woman Hot
“Class not trash!” ~Kathy
“I’d say stretch marks! Seriously. Child bearing is beautiful.” ~Melanie
“Her eyes.” ~Meredith
“A womans hotness should be defined in two ways…
A man, curves large lips and hair
A woman EVERYTHING ELSE.” ~Julie Ann
“According to my 6 yr old the thingamajiggys on their chest that boys really don’t have. Hubby agrees.” ~Christina
“I think a woman’s ankles are beautiful tanned, accented with a small charm bracelet and accenting the cuteness of the strappy sandals her feet are caressed by.” ~Julie
“A genuine smile because happiness radiates from the inside out.” ~Jackie
“Confidence, knowing she’s hot but being humble!” ~Christy
“Confidence is the key!” ~Angelia
“Leaving something to the imagination. Baring it all is not always a hot thing. My opinion.” ~Karen
“My husband says a woman who has a little independence and strong ambitions.” ~Aimee
“Pure confidence. You can be big and tall and as long as u have confidence and carry yourself well, you will become sexy.” ~Renae
Your Turn: What do you think makes a woman “hot?” Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section, below!
Angela Atkinson is a Certified Life Coach and the author of more than 20 books on narcissism, narcissistic abuse recovery and related topics. A recognized expert on narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder who has studied and written extensively on narcissistic relationships since 2006, Atkinson was inspired to begin her work as a result of having survived toxic relationships of her own.
Atkinson offers trauma-informed coaching and has certifications in life coaching, level 2 therapeutic model, CBT coaching, integrative wellness coaching, and NLP. She is a certified trauma support coach and certified family trauma professional. She also has a professional PTSD counseling certification. Her mission is to help those who have experienced the emotional and mental devastation that comes with narcissistic abuse in these incredibly toxic relationships to (re)discover their true selves, stop the gaslighting and manipulation and move forward into their genuine desires – into a life that is exactly what they choose for themselves.
Along with her solution-focused life coaching experience, Atkinson’s previous career in journalism and research helps her to offer both accurate and understandable information for survivors of abuse in a simple-to-understand way that helps to increase awareness in the narcissistic abuse recovery community. Atkinson founded QueenBeeing.com Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support, the SPANily Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support Groups and the Life Makeover Academy. In her life coaching practice, Atkinson’s clients enjoy her personalized approach that allows and encourages them to become the best possible versions of themselves and to succeed in doing what they love most. She offers individual and group coaching for victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse at NarcissisticAbuseRecovery.Online and NarcissismSupportCoach.com.