Mini-Mission: Living in this moment, here with you

Written by Angela Atkinson

The Secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, not to worry about the future, nor to anticipate troubles, but to live the present moment wisely and earnestly.- Buddha

How often do you find yourself living in the past? Wondering what might have been, or even regretting the choices that brought you to this point?

Every single person in the world has felt this way at one time or another at some point in their lives, but it’s how you choose to deal with these feelings that makes or breaks you.
I know, it sounds very dramatic. And, truth be told, it is.

The fact is that when we focus on the past and dwell on things we can’t change, we are cheating ourselves. And, when we worry about the future, we cheat ourselves. When we’re so concerned with what was or what might be, life passes us by.

It all sounds so simple: just live in the moment. And it should be easy…but as it happens, life can occasionally throw you a curve ball. How can one live in the moment when so many difficulties present themselves? How can one avoid worry and stress?

Maybe you can’t avoid everything, but remember this: life is all about perception. So, for example, when you get out of bed and trip over the cat, you might think, “Oh great, the whole day’s going to be bad.” And, you can bet that it will.

But if you laugh it off and think happy thoughts instead, you’re more likely to have positive experiences.

Even if you don’t believe in the law of attraction, I think we can agree that it FEELS better to be happy and to have a positive outlook. That alone should be enough to give today’s challenge a shot. 🙂

So, bottom line: live for the moment. Feel good. Think happy thoughts!

Mini-Bliss Mission

Need some tips on how to live in the moment? Here’s what Certified Life Coach Helaine Iris advises in her article Live in the moment? How do you do that?:

1. When you find yourself imagining fearful scenarios ask yourself, “Is this the only possibility?” Search for what else could be true, rather than what you fear.

2. Remind yourself that worrying about the future or regretting the past isn’t going to change what has or is going to happen.

3. Do you have a fundamental trust that whatever happens you’re going to be ok? Can you find times from your past that serve as evidence that this is true? If so, draw on that experience.

4. Are your basic needs met, does your life work? Often we move into the future because we think it will be better there. Consider addressing what ever is not in balance so it will become desirable to be more in the now.

5. Practice the power of the present. Focus on something positive or beautiful right here and now and breathe it in. Let yourself fully feel it.

6. Then, be willing to let go of that too and move on to the next moment.

Today, I challenge you to live for the moment. Just for today, look around you and find the beauty and wonder that is in your every day environment.

Breathe…appreciate life…and think happy thoughts.

Want what you’ve got, and you’ll always have what you want. It’s all about this moment, right here, right now.

Who do you want to be? What do you want to do? What’s it all about for you? Be it, do it, have it.

I leave you with a final thought, a quote from Henry Drummond.

“You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have really lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love.”

What do you think? Share your thoughts in the comments section, below.

 

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