New Online Support Group for Narcissism Survivors

Written by Angela Atkinson

A Secret Support Group for People in Relationships With Narcissists

A totally free and completely secure online support group hosted by certified life coach Angela Atkinson. 

online narcissism support groupSPAN is an acronym for Support for People Affected by Narcissism. This is a private online support group forum hosted on Facebook.

Given the volatile nature of narcissists, the SPAN group on Facebook is a secret group – so you won’t be able to find it online – and even if they saw it, most people wouldn’t recognize SPAN as anything to be concerned about.

This is a Safe Place. While you’re here, we’ll take care of you.

For the protection of our members, the following safety precautions are put in place.

  • Each member will be individually vetted, up to the point of our capabilities, and if anyone makes a group member feel unsafe, admins will handle the problem swiftly and without question.
  • Anyone who harrasses, intimidates, overly criticizes or otherwise engages in “triggering” behaviors will be permanently blocked from the group – that means they will no longer even be able to see the group in their search, much less actually access it.
  • If admins will be on vacation or away for more than 24 hours, we will find a trusted substitute to ensure everyone’s emotional safety during the time we’re away.
  • What is said/posted/heard in the group stays IN the group. If members are found to have shared anything that is created inside of the group, such as a personal post or even a general share from a member, they will be immediately removed. (Note: Due to the group settings, anyone who actually accomplishes this will have done so willfully, with full knowledge that it wasn’t allowed. That’s why the strict rule on this one.)
  • We reserve the right to remove any member without notice if we find there is a conflict of interest (such as a suspected narc who is stalking his or her victim).
  • We also reserve the right to amend the rules at any time in order to preserve the safety and privacy of our members.
  • See the most current list of rules right here. 

Click here to apply to be in the group.

There’s no charge – it’s another one of my Pay It Forward initiatives. The application just takes a moment, but is required in order to ensure the safety of our members. Important: ANSWER ALL QUESTIONS asked. Due to a high number of requests, our admin team automatically deletes requests where people don’t answer the membership application questions.

Join SPAN Today! Also see the ultimate resource list for victims of narcissism.


Updated List of Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support Groups

Our narcissistic abuse recovery support groups are facilitated by certified life coaches and a team of skilled admins who are empaths and fellow survivors. offers all kinds of resources for support for people who are affected by narcissistic abuse and working on their recovery. That includes group support. We have both free and inexpensive options. These currently include the following.

The SPANily Official Group

Support for People Affected by Narcissistic Abuse in Toxic Relationships – A free, private Facebook support group that is professionally moderated by an amazing team of admins and the QueenBeeing coaching staff.


Divorce Support

Divorce Support – Offers Support for Divorcing a Narcissist, Before, During and After. There is no greater emotional pain that can be inflicted on someone than divorce, whether you initiate it or your narcissistic partner does. 


SPAN Book Club

SPAN Book Club – Get your intellectual stimulation and share camaraderie over a shared hobby, while alleviating the typical loneliness and isolation suffered by survivors of narcissistic abuse from the comfort of your home.


Boldly Evolving Empaths

Boldly Evolving Empaths (QueenBeeing BEEs) – For those survivors who are ready to thrive and who have passed the discovery and understanding phases and are ready to push forward into the next phase in their lives.


Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

 SPANily Support for Co-Parenting with a Narcissist – If you’re co-parenting with a narcissist, this is the group for you. A parenting-focused narcissistic abuse recovery support group by Angie Atkinson and


Adult Children of Narcissists

Support for Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents – If one or both of your parents were narcissists, chances are, you’re struggling more than you may realize. Get support from people who have been there.


Small Group Coaching

New Group Coaching Program – Several weekly session times available for small group coaching. All levels of recovery served. Learn more and sign up for sessions here. Program director, Certified Life Coach Lise Colucci.

The SPANily Home

The SPANily Home –’s OFF-FACBOOK private narcissistic abuse recovery and resource center. Closely monitored and managed by our team of certified narcissistic abuse recovery coaches. Pricing starts at $3.99 per month.

Get Coaching


  • Certified Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coaches
  • Confidential 
  • Phone or Text
  • Package Discounts Available

Benefits of Membership

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Connect on Your Favorite Platforms

The QueenBeeing SPANily Support System includes the SPAN support groups along with our narcissistic abuse recovery community on YouTube. Also among the SPANnily are our off-Facebook support site,, and our newly-launched Quora Space.

Connect with People Who Understand Narcissistic Abuse

Sometimes it helps to just talk to someone who GETS what you’re going through. So many survivors of narcissistic abuse are estranged from their families and are left feeling alone, unwanted, abandoned, and unloved. We want you to know that you are not alone. We want you to feel supported, welcomed, and loved. And while your SPANily can not fully replace your real-life family, it can most definitely help you feel less alone.

Get Validation of Your Experience

Our support groups offer validation of your experience, genuine peer, and professional support. Plus, as a member, you have the ability to communicate with real people who have been where you are or have been, and who understand on a level deeper than most people in your “real life.” This makes these free online groups priceless for so many.


Meet Your SPANily Support System

The QueenBeeing SPANily is arguably the best, most supportive, and highly connected narcissistic abuse recovery support group on the web. The SPANily was founded by Angie Atkinson, a certified trauma counselor, certified life coach, and narcissistic abuse recovery expert.

The SPANily offers several subgroups and features a vigilant, compassionate admin team full of trained administrators, including narcissistic abuse recovery coaches, related-topic experts, and narcissistic abuse survivors. The team actively and effectively supports more than 50k members.

Related Topic Experts on the admin team include divorce and legal experts, trauma and CPTSD-informed counselors, NLP (neurolinguistic programming) and CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy coaching) certified practitioners, certified art therapy practitioners, social workers, psychology experts, and more.

The SPAN admin team is made up of fellow survivors of narcissistic abuse who intentionally and actively choose to pay forward their support to the community that helped them heal, grow, and evolve in various capacities.

In addition to Angie Atkinson, our SPANily admins include certified narcissistic abuse recovery coaches Lise Colucci and Colleen Brosnan, certified divorce coach and paralegal Misty Dawn, along with admins Sarah Browne (who also runs our SPAN Book Club), Zoe Viveca Sumner, Karen Bawden, April Meaux, Maria Kauffman, Therese Anne, and Richa Chadha. Our community manager and admin for our Quora Space is Miriam Slozberg. We have admins in time zones around the globe to maintain 24/7 admin coverage.

Why should you join a narcissistic support community?

If you need some help dealing with someone with narcissism, join a narcissistic support network. These groups are made up of people who have experienced narcissistic abuse themselves. They will be able to empathize with you and help you find ways to deal with the disorder.

There are several reasons why you should join a narcissistic support community. First, you will be able to connect with others who understand what you are going through. Second, you can share your experiences with others who have gone through similar situations. Third, you will be able to learn new strategies to cope with narcissists. Fourth, you will be able to receive advice and guidance from those who have been there before. Finally, you will be able to make friends with other group members.

What is a Narcissistic Support Group?

  • Narcissistic support groups are aimed at supporting narcissistic abuse survivors through their recovery. 
  • They involve sharing personal experiences with other members.
  • These groups are not meant to replace therapy but to help those suffering from abuse at the hands of someone with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) by providing them with a sense of community and understanding.

What Are Some Of The Benefits Of Joining A Narcissistic support group?

There are several benefits to joining a narcissistic support group. First, these groups provide a safe environment where individuals can share their stories without judgment. Second, they offer a place to vent frustrations and gain insight into how others have dealt with similar situations. Third, they allow people to connect with others who understand what they are going through. Fourth, they allow people to learn more about NPD and its symptoms. Finally, they provide a forum for people to discuss ways to cope with the disorder.


  • Angela Atkinson

    Angela Atkinson is a certified trauma counselor and the author of more than 20 books on narcissism, narcissistic abuse recovery, and related topics. A recognized expert on narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder who has studied and written extensively on narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic abuse in toxic relationships since 2006, she has a popular narcissistic abuse recovery YouTube channel. Atkinson was inspired to begin her work as a result of having survived toxic relationships of her own. Atkinson offers trauma-informed narcissistic abuse recovery coaching and has certifications in trauma counseling, life coaching, level 2 therapeutic model, CBT coaching, integrative wellness coaching, and NLP. She is a certified trauma support coach and certified family trauma professional. She also has a professional PTSD counseling certification. Her mission is to help those who have experienced the emotional and mental devastation that comes with narcissistic abuse in these incredibly toxic relationships to (re)discover their true selves, stop the gaslighting and manipulation, and move forward into their genuine desires – into a life that is exactly what they choose for themselves. Along with her solution-focused life coaching experience, Atkinson’s previous career in journalism and research helps her to offer both accurate and understandable information for survivors of abuse in a simple-to-understand way that helps to increase awareness in the narcissistic abuse recovery community. Atkinson founded Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support, the SPANily Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support Groups and the Life Makeover Academy. She offers individual and group coaching for victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse here at and at NarcissisticAbuseRecovery.Online.

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