What is up with the narcissist and closure?
Are you desperate for closure after the ending of a relationship with a narcissist? Both the need for relief from the discard and being able to speak your mind and discuss the issues you lived with if you have gone no contact rarely if ever happen. Feeling the need for closure in order to move on and heal can perhaps be one of the more frustrating things survivors of narcissistic abuse go through after a discard. I know personally it left me feeling like it was impossible to stop thinking about the narcissist and I even struggled to forgive myself for having been with them in the first place. With a narcissist, if you get closure then you are one of the rare few. The narcissistic person will not allow you to get the closure you need. Instead of closure you get silent treatment, smear campaigns, gaslighting, blame shifting, the narcissist playing victim, hoovering and repeated abuse, you name it but it’s not closure. Of all the people I have spoken to about the abuse they have suffered not one has said they have had closure directly from the narcissist . This video talks about why a narcissist won’t give you closure as well as ideas for how to move forward with your own life to create closure you seek.
Understanding narcissism and how the narcissist manipulates and abuses will hopefully help to get you started with healing. I truly hope that understanding things allows you to see it is not your fault. Manipulation by a toxic person is difficult to understand when trying to relate to why they might abuse, seeing them for what they are and how they treat others is an acceptance that can help you greatly with recovery. My hope is that the videos we share give you the sense and peace of mind that you are not alone!
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Lise Colucci is an intuitive healer and certified life coach, as well as a certified narcissistic abuse recovery coach. She is a long-time admin and mentor for the SPAN Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Group, actively helping survivors of narcissistic abuse in the expansive community to learn and heal.
