FAQ in the Overcoming Phase
How can I start to really re-discover myself after narcissistic abuse?
Q. Can I make the narcissist be nice to you WITHOUT acting like a narcissist myself?
A. Yes, absolutely – and it can be done in two ethical, repeatable steps – check it out right here.
Q. How do I avoid “relapsing” and going back to the narcissist?
A. The Hard Part: Why and How You MUST Resist Narcissistic Hoovering
Q. What if going no contact with my narcissist isn’t an option? What if I have to stay?
A. Sadly, no contact doesn’t work for every situation, and you and I both know this. Unless you’re being physically abused, sometimes it feels like the wolf you know is better than the one that you don’t. But here are some posts to help you get your head in the right place and tools to help you be happier.
Q. Can I take control of the situation and/or overpower the narcissist?
A. You can, if you’re willing to stand up for yourself – at least temporarily. Once you’ve recognized the situation, you’re already one step closer. Now you need to know how to get through it. Try these posts for help and ideas.
A. Absolutely! Several, actually! They’re all at our online academy. You can visit Life Makeover Academy right here.
Q. Can a narcissist ever really love?
A. I think we both know the answer to that question, but just in case: