4 Reasons Sex is BETTER in your 30s Than in your 20s

Written by Melina Ann

Men reach their sexual peak at eighteen. Women reach theirs at thirty-five. Do you get the feeling that God is playing a practical joke? ~Rita Rudner

Stock PhotoWould you believe me if I told you that sex is better in your 30s than it was in your 20s? No, seriously!

Being in your 30s gives new meaning to the word “sex”. It isn’t just about being in a relationship or feeling attracted to another person like it was in my 20s.

I had to know I was in a sexual relationship to feel sexy and complete in life back in my 20s.

But these days, sex has become way more than a one night stand now that I am in my 30s.

Here are four reasons that sex is so much better in your 30s.

1. Having one partner – Being married and having one partner in the bedroom is beneficial on so many levels. I know he loves me and I can be comfortable with him without fear of criticism. I am no longer worrying how someone feels about my stretch marks or those few extra pounds that refuse to come off. I can be free and open with my body which many people struggle with in their youth.

2. Sexual fantasies – Having a long term relationship in your 30s means you are open with everything and that includes our sexual fantasies. Being able to tell someone what you like and how you like it makes a huge difference in the bedroom.

3. Finally an orgasm – Did you find the elusive orgasm with a partner? By the time I had reached my 30s I was sexually confident enough to share with my partner what made me reach climax. In my younger years it was just a lot of bumping and grinding with nothing going on. I was sexually unsatisfied.

4. Lack of sex is okay in a relationship –
Boredom, stress, work, kids, health, emotions, all of these things can lead to no sex in a relationship. However, 4 kids later and I understand that just because we don’t have sex once a day/week/month doesn’t mean anything about my sexuality. My relationship is not going to fall apart just because I didn’t feel like having sex last night. These are things that every couple goes through and they are perfectly normal. Just don’t let your dry spell go on for too long.

 

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