8 Signs Your Spouse is Cheating

8 Signs Your Spouse is Cheating

Do you think that your spouse is having an affair? Unfortunately, many times, it can be tough to tell if your spouse is cheating on you. Fortunately, many cheating spouses eventually show signs of being unfaithful, most of which are associated with their behavior. Outlined below are some signs that your spouse might be cheating on you.

What Behavior Changes Signal a Cheating Spouse?

They join a gym.

This is a major sign when it is something that they never had any interest in doing so before. If you never had a problem with your spouse’s weight before, why would you now? This could be a sign that they are trying to impress someone besides you.

You never sit down and talk anymore.

Did your spouse and talk about their day? If you never seem to have the intense conversations you once had, there may be a major problem. Cheating spouses often try to distance themselves from their relationships at home. This is a sign that your spouse may be cheating on you.

Sex is different.

Your spouse may act differently during sex and want to try new things out in the bedroom. If your spouse suddenly wants to try new things in the bedroom or if you notice that the sex is different, they may be cheating. In fact, you may be left wondering where they learned that from.

You have less sex.

In keeping with sex, your spouse may want to have it less. A decrease in sex frequency is a sign that your spouse may be cheating on you. As for why sex occurs less when cheating is involved, they feel guilty about what they are doing, or they may be getting enough sex already.

They get angry more often.

They may also get angry easier and more often. Your spouse may also be touchy around you. This may lead to more arguments and disagreements in your relationship. Things you do may annoy your husband or wife. They may actually go as far as to leave the room. Be sure to observe the changes in behavior that your spouse has towards other members of your family as well.

They start dressing differently.

They want to buy a whole new wardrobe, in a way, reinventing themselves. This works in conjunction with joining a gym to lose weight. A huge sign of cheating is when a new wardrobe is purchased, and more skin is shown.

They act weird about their phone.

Unusual behavior on the phone is another sign of cheating. When they talk on the phone near you, do they try to lower their voice or even leave the room? Hanging up a phone quickly is another signal to watch for. Be cautious of increased cell phone use, as many cheaters prefer to use their own personal phones instead of family phones.

Your friends start acting weird. 

In addition to examining the behavior of your husband or wife, you should also examine the behavior of your friends. The friends you share may start acting differently towards you. This is often because your shared friends might know more than you do. Even if a friend does not outright tell you that your husband or wife is cheating, they may intentionally or unintentionally show you the signs.

Are you worried your spouse is cheating on you?

While these signs may indicate that your spouse is cheating on you, there may also be reasonable causes for these behavior changes. For example, your spouse might want to look great for you and you alone, or they also may want to improve their health.

Even with the above-mentioned signs present, you should take additional steps. These steps can and should include monitoring cell phone calls, viewing the cell phone bill, or hiring a private investigator. Never confront your husband or wife without the proper proof. Be sure to get solid evidence of cheating. Otherwise, you could be creating a whole new problem in your relationship.

 

Inner Child Healing After Toxic Relationships: The Basics

Inner Child Healing After Toxic Relationships: The Basics

Today, we’re going to define inner child healing (and the inner child concept), and we’re going to start figuring out how to start healing your inner child after narcissistic abuse.

In today’s vlog (the first video in this post), I’m giving you a quick exercise to help with healing your inner child after narcissistic abuse.

It won’t take long and it can change your life – inner child healing techniques for Narcissistic Abuse Survivors can take you to the next level in your healing process, and in fact can literally improve every aspect of your life.

Growing up with a narcissist as a parent or even being in any sort of long-term relationship with one can really wound your inner child – that part of you that’ll never grow up. And now, you’ve got choices – you can just ignore and neglect that part of yourself – or you can learn to embrace and love yourself and your inner child.

If you really want to recover from the toxic relationships, gaslighting and other forms of manipulation and emotional abuse you’ve been subjected to in your life, start with your inner child – the sweet, innocent self that subconsciously still drives almost every part of your life.

Whatever you are today is the result of your experiences up to this point – this includes your problems, strengths, habits and level of self-esteem. In every age category, from birth to infant and child to adolescent, you have met distinct and specific challenges. As someone who has experienced toxic abuse at the hands of a narcissist, you may need to work on healing your inner child.

What is inner child healing after narcissistic abuse all about?

In most cases, if the people around you raised you in a natural and healthy way, you would turn out to be a well-balanced and relatively strong person. However, if your childhood experiences are filled with traumas and problems (as they mmost likely were if you were raised by a toxic narcissist), these past incidents have had a significant impact on who you are as a person, at least the way you are today. To understand this topic, you have to understand the concept of inner child.

In today’s video, we’re going to discover what an inner child is and how you can begin to heal yours – the basics of our whole-week series.

Do you know what inner child is?

Free eBook Thru Monday to Celebrate YouTube Milestone: 5K Subscribers

Free eBook Thru Monday to Celebrate YouTube Milestone: 5K Subscribers

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Thank you so much for clicking “subscribe” on my YouTube channel. I’m so excited to tell you that I reached the big 5K subscribe mark a few days ago, and now, I want to pay it forward!

So, this is just me, recognizing you, and saying THANK YOU for being my subscriber! Plus, some funny stuff and some bloopers. Mostly just for fun. 🙂 Scroll down below the video to collect your gift! <3 Thanks for being you!

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Here’s a free ebook for you – through Monday, August 22, 2016 ONLY: To celebrate my 5k subscribers on YouTube, I’m giving away my ebook on narcissistic abuse recovery free through Monday, entitled ‘Alive Inside.’ This book offers a in-depth guide to surviving and thriving during and after life with a narcissist, in whatever degree necessary for your life. You’ll learn to recognize narcissism in those around you, plus how to identify and stop typical manipulation techniques, such as gaslighting, in their tracks. Get your copy, right here!

12 Ways to Boost Your Kid’s Brain Power This Summer With Art Activities

12 Ways to Boost Your Kid’s Brain Power This Summer With Art Activities

I don’t know about you, but as a mom, I’m always looking for ways to give my kids the best possible foundation for learning and for eventually becoming successful adults.  (more…)

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