
Unmistakably Toxic: 4 Qualities Shared by All Malignant Narcissists
Narcissists are the worst kind of abusers because so often, even the very people they’re abusing aren’t aware of it – in fact, that’s the very nature of their favorite manipulation tactic, gaslighting.
So many people are in these situations and because they are being so heavily manipulated, they really believe that they are the ones with the “issues” – when in reality, they’ve just been horribly gaslighted by one of these people.
It’s crazy-making, to say the least.
What is a Malignant Narcissist?
In general, when we talk about a narcissist, we’re talking about someone with a high opinion of him/herself. But when it comes to toxic relationships and narcissistic abuse situations, the term refers to a toxic, verbally (and sometimes physically) abusive person who may have narcissistic personality disorder. The malignant narcissist is officially defined as someone who has narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) along with various antisocial features, paranoid traits, and ego-driven aggression. They may also exhibit an absence of conscience, a psychological need for power, and an inflated sense of self-importance and entitlement. However, very often people who should be or might be diagnosed won’t be labeled as such. This is due to the fact that they’re unlikely to see a psychologist unless they’re forced to legally, or in some cases, as an attempt to maintain control over or connection to someone in their lives who threatens to leave due to narcissistic abuse.
What Qualities Are Shared by All Malignant Narcissists?
While there are various types of narcissists and they exist at various levels of toxicity, there are four basic traits that every narcissist has in common, according to a 2013 study published by Kamila Jankowiak-Siuda and Wojciech Zajkowski. In a narcissism-focused study, the researchers were able to define the following traits as being shared among all narcissists, despite various other definitions and forms of narcissistic personality disorder. It didn’t matter if they were a covert narcissist or a grandiose narcissist – or one of the many other types of narcissists that we’ve currently defined.
4 Traits Shared by All Narcissists, According to a 2013 Psychology Study
The qualities that are shared by all narcissists, regardless of classification, include the following.
- Selfishness
- Disregarding other people
- Being self-centered
- Lack of empathy
Interesting, right? I thought so. Would you add any qualities to this list? Would you disagree with any?
What’s the #1 Quality Shared by All Malignant Narcissists?
In this 4-minute video, I’ll explain the single quality that is the tipping point into malignant narcissism and exactly how to identify it.
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