Bliss Mission: Turn Disappointment Into Drive

Bliss Mission: Turn Disappointment Into Drive

Military Photographer of the Year Winner 1998,...

Today’s Affirmations

Disappointment fuels my drive to improve.

I accept that life’s experiences sometimes come with disappointment.

I know that not every situation has the desired outcome, but I also know how to deal with those undesirable occurrences.

When I am disappointed, I avoid allowing the feelings to consume me.

I know that every disappointment happens for a reason, even if I don’t see it right away. I take a moment to assess what happened and try to find a positive message out of it.

When things don’t go my way, I feel motivated to improve so I can reap success the next time around. I look for things that I could do differently to avoid experiencing the same disappointment two times in a row.

If I submit a project at work that doesn’t meet the requirements of my employer, I take it in stride. I try to accept that even with the best effort, there is always room for me to do better. I use the opportunity to work on improving my output so the outcome is more favorable next time.

In cases where my expectations of others go unmet, I avoid using that as an opportunity to judge.

I accept that people are imperfect and can make mistakes or bad choices that disappoint others.

Today, I focus on making the most of second chances.

I focus on using a lost first opportunity to make the most of the next one and improve the outcome. I commit to not allowing disappointment to conquer me and cause me to lose focus on my goals.

Answer These Self-Reflection Questions:

  1. How do I help others to cope with disappointment?
  2. Do I recognize my shortcomings that lead to disappointment?
  3. Am I able to resist the frustration that may come when I feel disappointment?
Affirmations & Reflections: Winning in the Midst of a Loss

Affirmations & Reflections: Winning in the Midst of a Loss

Military Photographer of the Year Winner 1998,...I win even in the midst of a loss.

Disappointments are a part of life and losses are inevitable. However, negative experiences make the positive ones even more worthwhile. Plus, I strive to turn every loss into a win. I might win something other than what I expected, but it’s a win nevertheless.

Sure, I know what it feels like to lose. I admit to feeling down and disappointed when something I work hard to achieve slips out of reach. But I also know what it feels like to win, so I gain knowledge from each disappointment that can help me win more often.

Whenever something works out unfavorably, I analyze the sequence of events and look for a probable cause of the disappointing result.

I can usually find the culprit in a weakness here or choice there. What I learn is enlightening and most rewarding!

Experiencing a loss makes future victories and successes that much sweeter. I feel more pleased when I win something after suffering a loss in the past. I believe my losses make me better equipped to succeed and look forward in anticipation to future victories.

Today, I vow to enjoy my rewards, even if they are something other than victory. I know that there is a shining moment out there for me, and I commit to making myself ready to seize that moment when it comes.

Self-Reflection Questions:

1. How can I teach my kids to learn the lesson even after a disappointing loss?
2. What positive attributes have I gained as a result of experiencing disappointments?
3. Am I better equipped for future battles after a loss?

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