Kanye West: Introvert or Narcissist?

Kanye West: Introvert or Narcissist?

“I am Warhol. I am the No. 1 most impactful artist of our generation. I am Shakespeare in the flesh.” ~Kanye West 

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So awhile back, I read this article that claimed that self-proclaimed music god Kanye West was secretly an introvert.

Yeah, you read that right. Poor, shy Kanye West.

But seriously, let’s start here. Kanye is quite obviously NOT an introvert. In fact, I’d say he’s pretty clearly a narcissist – not that there’s anything wrong with that.

Let me just pull you aside for a moment and note one thing: I personally enjoy a lot of the man’s music and while I don’t consider him much of a singer, I do consider him a very talented artist.

And I also realize that in order to be as successful as Kanye West, one must have a firm belief in one’s abilities, which he clearly does.

With all of that being said, only a narcissist would think that his opinion is more important than however many others chose Taylor Swift over Beyoncé at that now – infamous awards show.

Only a narcissist would interrupt a live television event and cause such a scene, literally stealing the spotlight from a young artist who, to be fair, is pretty talented in her own right.

Tell me an introvert would be so bold. 

Understanding An Introvert: 5 Things we wish you knew

Understanding An Introvert: 5 Things we wish you knew

“I’m an introvert… I love being by myself, love being outdoors, love taking a long walk with my dogs and looking at the trees, flowers, the sky.” ~Audrey Hepburn

Understanding An Introvert: 5b Things we wish you knew

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Being an introvert is not an easy task. Sometimes the people around us suffer because they don’t know how to deal with introverts.

Here are some tips and tricks to being a great friend or family member to an introvert.

1. Acceptance – I’m not going to leave my house if I don’t want to. When you call me up and ask me to go and I say “no” then you won’t get me to leave. Don’t beg and plead and argue with me. I don’t want to go so I’m not going to. Please understand this instead of going out of your way to belittle me since I don’t want to leave the house yet again. I need you to accept this is who I am.

2. Don’t forget me – Just because I say “no” I’m not going doesn’t mean I want you to forget about me the next time you plan an outing or event. I know I missed a lot of stuff but I don’t want to be excluded completely.

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3. My house is best – Want to hang out? Come on over. Make sure to call me first though. More than likely I am not going to meet you at a bar but I am almost always willing to have you over for a few drinks and a bon fire in the back yard. Just don’t bring anyone else without me knowing.

4. Silence is okay – Know that my silence is not a bad thing. I am not insulting you. I like you. I am just used to being quiet. I like quiet. It’s part of being an introvert.

5. Outings are hard – I am tired every time after I go to a public function. When I pick my kids up from school and have to talk to more than one person I am tired. It takes a great deal of energy to make myself do certain things, and being in public is one of them.

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Things Only Introverts Understand: 5 Ways to Survive Going in Public

Things Only Introverts Understand: 5 Ways to Survive Going in Public

“There is a tremendous difference between alone and lonely. You could be lonely in a group of people. I like being alone. I like eating by myself. I go home at night and just watch a movie or hang out with my dog. I have to exert myself and really say, oh God, I’ve got to see my friends because I’m too content by myself.” ~ Drew Barrymore

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I know I’m not alone when I say I would rather stay in and watch a movie on Netflix than go out and watch one at a theater.

I don’t even want to go stand in line at Redbox and rent a movie because that would mean I have to be next to other people.

Spending time at home and with my select friends and family is enough excitement for me. My social needs are met with a video game and a bag of veggies. (I would say chips but I am on this health kick…be healthy!).

There are moments in my life when I did not leave the house for weeks at a time. The only people I saw were my husband and children. I like it that way.

I know that I have to go out into the world and function. I do not have to like it but it must be done. I could shop only at Wal-Mart. However, there are some things that you cannot do at Wal-Mart like pick your kid up from school and attend your child’s soccer game. Here is how I stay sane. (or insane if that’s how you want to look at it.)

1. Limited eye contact – I limit how much eye contact I have with everyone I meet. The less our eyes meet the less you will want to talk to me.

2. No conversation – The worst thing is when you are checking out at the grocery store with $200 in food and all the lady who’s ringing you up wants to do is chit chat about how she found her missing dog. Listen, I’m happy for her and the pup but I don’t want to hear about it. A simple “hello” and “have a good day” is almost too much in the first place.

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3. Don’t smell – People smell terrible. Avoid smelling anyone at all times. I can smell a person who didn’t take a bath or brush their teeth from an aisle over. I bury my face in my scarf or my husband’s shoulder whenever we pass someone. Yes, there are those of you out there that use cologne and bathe regularly. I apologize to you. However, I am still going to hold my breath whenever you pass me because I cannot smell you.

4. Be nice – Being as nice as possible to those people who must talk to you is key. The nicer you are the more helpful they will be and the faster you can leave and go back home.

5. Don’t be afraid – No one knows that you are an introvert. No one knows you want to run away and crawl home instead of smiling one more fake smile. Everyone picks their kids up from school. Everyone goes to the mall. People go grocery shopping. Just remember that blending in is our best bet. Get done what you need to get done and then get back home.

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