What, exactly makes a woman attractive? What makes a woman popular with men? With other women? What makes a woman hot?
I did an informal survey on a group of men between the ages of 18 and 65. Here are some of the most interesting answers I found.
What Men Say Makes a Woman Hot
“Dat ass. An attitude too, more the merrier, but perhaps that’s just me and my consistent need for hard work.” ~Cal
“Their smile, flirtiness, brain, chest, legs, eyes…choose one.” ~Dave
“First thing is is looks, butt and face, then eyes and once we know each other, if we work well together. Or the phrase feed me f*** me and shut the f*** up. Oh yeah and tan. I like a Latin women with accent. And one last thing–hot sex.” ~Ian
“I am physically attracted to legs and butt more than breasts, but when a woman looks at you and wants you, you can see it in her eyes and smile. Her posture changes. It’s a very strong feeling, and very sexy.” ~Kristopher
“Whips,chains,leather and lace. Not all in that order, but you get the point. Really depends on the mood.” ~Josh
“If she looks like my wife…. that’s what hot is! Just sayin’.” ~Larry
“Benefits. I whisper ‘medical insurance’ into my wife’s ear and the sparks start flying.” ~Randy
Your Turn: What do you think makes a woman “hot?” Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section, below!
Angela Atkinson is a certified trauma counselor and the author of more than 20 books on narcissism, narcissistic abuse recovery, and related topics. A recognized expert on narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder who has studied and written extensively on narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic abuse in toxic relationships since 2006, she has a popular narcissistic abuse recovery YouTube channel. Atkinson was inspired to begin her work as a result of having survived toxic relationships of her own.
Atkinson offers trauma-informed narcissistic abuse recovery coaching and has certifications in trauma counseling, life coaching, level 2 therapeutic model, CBT coaching, integrative wellness coaching, and NLP. She is a certified trauma support coach and certified family trauma professional. She also has a professional PTSD counseling certification. Her mission is to help those who have experienced the emotional and mental devastation that comes with narcissistic abuse in these incredibly toxic relationships to (re)discover their true selves, stop the gaslighting and manipulation, and move forward into their genuine desires – into a life that is exactly what they choose for themselves.
Along with her solution-focused life coaching experience, Atkinson’s previous career in journalism and research helps her to offer both accurate and understandable information for survivors of abuse in a simple-to-understand way that helps to increase awareness in the narcissistic abuse recovery community. Atkinson founded QueenBeeing.com Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support, the SPANily Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support Groups and the Life Makeover Academy.
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