I can already hear the feminists bristling about the title of this site (and the forthcoming book), but ladies–hear me out.
“How to Be a Hot Wife” is not about becoming some plastic, cookie-cutter, Stepford-wife looking version of yourself. There are no specific rules or regulations on what makes a wife hot–not here.
In fact, as far as I’m concerned, being a hot wife is not about having a certain kind of style, wearing a certain kind of clothing, being a certain kind of anything–it’s just about being yourself in the best possible iteration.
How to Be a Hot Wife will never ask you to:
- Be anything you’re not.
- Wear anything you don’t love.
- Embrace any lifestyle choices you’re not comfortable with ethically or otherwise.
- Accept less than you are worth, in any sense of the phrase.
- Treat others with anything less than love and respect.
- Tolerate anything less than love and respect for yourself from others.
What do you think makes a wife “hot?” Share your thoughts, feelings and experiences in the comments section, below.
Angela Atkinson is a certified trauma counselor and the author of more than 20 books on narcissism, narcissistic abuse recovery, and related topics. A recognized expert on narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder who has studied and written extensively on narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic abuse in toxic relationships since 2006, she has a popular narcissistic abuse recovery YouTube channel. Atkinson was inspired to begin her work as a result of having survived toxic relationships of her own.
Atkinson offers trauma-informed narcissistic abuse recovery coaching and has certifications in trauma counseling, life coaching, level 2 therapeutic model, CBT coaching, integrative wellness coaching, and NLP. She is a certified trauma support coach and certified family trauma professional. She also has a professional PTSD counseling certification. Her mission is to help those who have experienced the emotional and mental devastation that comes with narcissistic abuse in these incredibly toxic relationships to (re)discover their true selves, stop the gaslighting and manipulation, and move forward into their genuine desires – into a life that is exactly what they choose for themselves.
Along with her solution-focused life coaching experience, Atkinson’s previous career in journalism and research helps her to offer both accurate and understandable information for survivors of abuse in a simple-to-understand way that helps to increase awareness in the narcissistic abuse recovery community. Atkinson founded QueenBeeing.com Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support, the SPANily Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support Groups and the Life Makeover Academy.
She offers individual and group coaching for victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse here at QueenBeeing.com and at NarcissisticAbuseRecovery.Online.